12-01-2024, 08:04 AM
I watched Mary Roach’s TED talk on orgasms a while ago, and it was mind-blowing. She’s so good at making complex, taboo topics approachable and downright funny. It’s not often you find someone who can dive into the science of orgasms while keeping the audience laughing the entire time. One thing that stood out to me was her point about orgasms being possible even in non-sexual contexts, like during exercise or even certain types of meditation. It’s fascinating to think about how much of it is psychological as well as physical.
The humor she brings to the table is key to breaking down the awkwardness people might feel discussing these topics. I mean, who would’ve thought that laughing while learning about the vagus nerve’s role in orgasms could be so enjoyable? It really opens the door for people to be more curious and less embarrassed about their own sexual health.
What struck me the most was how much we don’t know about something so integral to human experience. I feel like most men assume they know it all, but the truth is, there’s a lot of mystery even scientists haven’t fully cracked. Mary’s talk is a great reminder to stay curious and explore not just our own experiences but also the perspectives of our partners.
If you haven’t seen her talk or read her book Bonk, you’re missing out. It’s not just educational—it’s a way to shift how you think about sex and orgasms altogether. I walked away with a newfound appreciation for how weird, wonderful, and multifaceted our bodies really are.
The humor she brings to the table is key to breaking down the awkwardness people might feel discussing these topics. I mean, who would’ve thought that laughing while learning about the vagus nerve’s role in orgasms could be so enjoyable? It really opens the door for people to be more curious and less embarrassed about their own sexual health.
What struck me the most was how much we don’t know about something so integral to human experience. I feel like most men assume they know it all, but the truth is, there’s a lot of mystery even scientists haven’t fully cracked. Mary’s talk is a great reminder to stay curious and explore not just our own experiences but also the perspectives of our partners.
If you haven’t seen her talk or read her book Bonk, you’re missing out. It’s not just educational—it’s a way to shift how you think about sex and orgasms altogether. I walked away with a newfound appreciation for how weird, wonderful, and multifaceted our bodies really are.