12-01-2024, 08:03 AM
This is such a heartfelt post, and I can tell you’ve really gone above and beyond to make her feel good. One thing that might not have come up yet is whether she’s ever had a thorough medical check-up focused on her sexual health. Hormonal imbalances, such as low testosterone or thyroid issues, can play a huge role in sexual response and ability to orgasm.
Has she ever mentioned if she experiences arousal but can’t reach the peak, or is there a lack of arousal altogether? If it’s the latter, it could be tied to her hormones or even medications she might be taking. Birth control, antidepressants, and certain other drugs can dull sexual sensations significantly.
Also, I’d suggest looking into pelvic floor exercises or therapy. A weak or tight pelvic floor can interfere with sensation and pleasure. Some women benefit from using tools like pelvic floor trainers, which can increase blood flow and sensitivity in that area.
Finally, make sure she knows this isn’t about her needing to “fix” anything. Framing this as a shared journey to enhance intimacy rather than solving a problem could help her feel less pressured and more willing to explore solutions.
Has she ever mentioned if she experiences arousal but can’t reach the peak, or is there a lack of arousal altogether? If it’s the latter, it could be tied to her hormones or even medications she might be taking. Birth control, antidepressants, and certain other drugs can dull sexual sensations significantly.
Also, I’d suggest looking into pelvic floor exercises or therapy. A weak or tight pelvic floor can interfere with sensation and pleasure. Some women benefit from using tools like pelvic floor trainers, which can increase blood flow and sensitivity in that area.
Finally, make sure she knows this isn’t about her needing to “fix” anything. Framing this as a shared journey to enhance intimacy rather than solving a problem could help her feel less pressured and more willing to explore solutions.