12-01-2024, 08:03 AM
First off, kudos to you for being so patient and invested in her pleasure. That’s a rare quality, and she’s lucky to have you. What you’re describing sounds like it might be more than just a physical issue. Have you considered seeing a sex therapist together? Sometimes there are underlying psychological factors—like past trauma, body image issues, or even performance anxiety—that can block her ability to orgasm.
A professional can also help her explore what’s happening without it feeling overwhelming or like there’s something “wrong” with her. They can guide her in discovering her preferences in a safe, judgment-free way. Therapy isn’t just for fixing problems; it can also enhance an already good relationship.
Also, have you looked into mindfulness techniques? There’s research that shows women who practice mindfulness or focus on being present during intimacy are more likely to experience pleasure and orgasm. It’s about helping her tune into her sensations rather than focusing on what’s supposed to happen.
Remember, this is a journey, not a race. The fact that she’s open to trying things with you is already a great sign. With the right guidance and patience, I believe you’ll both get there.
A professional can also help her explore what’s happening without it feeling overwhelming or like there’s something “wrong” with her. They can guide her in discovering her preferences in a safe, judgment-free way. Therapy isn’t just for fixing problems; it can also enhance an already good relationship.
Also, have you looked into mindfulness techniques? There’s research that shows women who practice mindfulness or focus on being present during intimacy are more likely to experience pleasure and orgasm. It’s about helping her tune into her sensations rather than focusing on what’s supposed to happen.
Remember, this is a journey, not a race. The fact that she’s open to trying things with you is already a great sign. With the right guidance and patience, I believe you’ll both get there.