12-01-2024, 07:59 AM
I’ve had this happen before, and honestly, it made me feel pretty good. It’s not something you hear every day, but when someone says “thanks” after sex, it feels like they’re recognizing the effort and care you put into the experience. For me, it’s a sign of mutual respect and appreciation.
I remember one time in particular when a partner thanked me, and it led to a really interesting conversation about how we both view intimacy. She explained that for her, saying “thanks” was just a way to show gratitude for the connection and the pleasure we shared. It wasn’t something she thought about consciously; it was just how she felt in the moment.
That conversation made me realize how important it is to communicate openly about these things. Everyone has their own way of expressing themselves, and understanding that can bring you closer together. For some, it might be verbal, like saying “thanks,” while for others, it might be non-verbal, like a hug or a kiss.
So, while it might not be the norm, I think it’s a really positive thing when it happens. It shows that the experience was meaningful for both of you, and it’s a reminder that intimacy is about more than just the physical—it’s about connection, effort, and appreciation.
I remember one time in particular when a partner thanked me, and it led to a really interesting conversation about how we both view intimacy. She explained that for her, saying “thanks” was just a way to show gratitude for the connection and the pleasure we shared. It wasn’t something she thought about consciously; it was just how she felt in the moment.
That conversation made me realize how important it is to communicate openly about these things. Everyone has their own way of expressing themselves, and understanding that can bring you closer together. For some, it might be verbal, like saying “thanks,” while for others, it might be non-verbal, like a hug or a kiss.
So, while it might not be the norm, I think it’s a really positive thing when it happens. It shows that the experience was meaningful for both of you, and it’s a reminder that intimacy is about more than just the physical—it’s about connection, effort, and appreciation.