Is it common for a partner to say Thanks after giving them an O?

[piciossa]

Honestly, I think it’s a cultural thing to some extent. I’ve traveled a lot, and in some places, people are just naturally more vocal about their feelings and emotions. Saying “thanks” after intimacy might seem unusual to some, but in other cultures, it’s almost expected to express gratitude or appreciation in some way.

I’ve had partners who would thank me, and it always left me with a smile. It’s a nice reminder that sex isn’t just about the physical act—it’s also about the connection and mutual effort. When someone says “thanks,” it can feel like they’re acknowledging that you did something right, that you cared enough to make the experience good for them.

But I can see how it might feel weird if you’re not used to it. For a lot of people, sex is this silent, intimate thing, and words can sometimes disrupt that vibe. Still, I think it’s better to over-communicate than to leave things unsaid, especially when it comes to something as personal as intimacy.

At the end of the day, I take it as a compliment. It’s not every day you get someone being so straightforward about how much they appreciated your efforts in the bedroom. If anything, it makes me want to step up my game even more!