Is it common for a partner to say Thanks after giving them an O?

[amravat123]

You know, I think this really depends on the personality of the partner and the kind of connection you both share. For some people, saying "thanks" is a natural way to express gratitude for something they enjoyed or appreciated. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re treating it like a transactional thing; instead, it’s their way of saying, “Hey, that was amazing, and I value what we just shared.” I’ve had a partner thank me before, and I found it charming. It felt like they were acknowledging the effort and care I put into making the moment special for both of us.

At first, it did catch me off guard, though. I mean, who says “thanks” after sex, right? But then I realized it was a reflection of how they viewed intimacy—not just as something physical but also emotional. It made me think about how we all have different ways of communicating and showing appreciation, even in the bedroom.

I guess it also depends on cultural or personal habits. Some people are naturally more expressive, while others might not feel the need to say anything at all. For me, I take it as a good sign when someone feels comfortable enough to say what’s on their mind, even if it’s just a quick “thanks.” It adds a layer of openness to the relationship.

So, yeah, I wouldn’t say it’s super common, but it’s not rare either. And honestly, I think it’s pretty sweet. It’s a small thing that can make you feel appreciated and connected, even after the physical part of the experience is over.