12-01-2024, 07:59 AM
This has happened to me a couple of times, and I always found it kind of cute. It’s like they’re genuinely appreciative of the effort or the experience, and I don’t see anything wrong with that. I think it’s just one of those things where people express themselves differently. Some might cuddle, others might crack a joke, and some might say “thanks.”
What stood out to me the most when it happened was the sincerity behind it. You can usually tell when someone’s just being polite versus when they really mean it. In my case, it felt heartfelt, like they were saying, “Wow, that was amazing, and I’m so glad we shared that moment together.” It made me feel like what we did mattered to them on a deeper level.
That said, I get why some people might find it a little weird or out of place. If you’re not used to hearing “thanks” in that context, it could come across as formal or even awkward. But I think the intent behind it is what really matters. It’s about recognizing the connection and the pleasure you brought to each other.
If you ask me, I’d rather have someone say “thanks” than say nothing at all. It shows that they’re engaged and emotionally present, which isn’t something everyone brings to the table in intimate situations.
What stood out to me the most when it happened was the sincerity behind it. You can usually tell when someone’s just being polite versus when they really mean it. In my case, it felt heartfelt, like they were saying, “Wow, that was amazing, and I’m so glad we shared that moment together.” It made me feel like what we did mattered to them on a deeper level.
That said, I get why some people might find it a little weird or out of place. If you’re not used to hearing “thanks” in that context, it could come across as formal or even awkward. But I think the intent behind it is what really matters. It’s about recognizing the connection and the pleasure you brought to each other.
If you ask me, I’d rather have someone say “thanks” than say nothing at all. It shows that they’re engaged and emotionally present, which isn’t something everyone brings to the table in intimate situations.