12-01-2024, 07:47 AM
This is definitely an interesting situation, and I can see why you’re wondering what’s going on. It sounds like your boyfriend might just have a strong preference for oral sex, and honestly, that’s not as rare as it might seem. Some guys just find it easier to climax with oral stimulation, especially if they’re used to it or if it gives them a more intense feeling. It’s not a reflection of your body or how “tight” you are—it’s just his personal response to different types of stimulation.
It’s also worth considering that he’s been single for a while, and sometimes, when guys are solo, they develop particular habits or routines that are hard to break. If he’s used to getting off only with oral, it could take a bit more time for him to feel comfortable or stimulated enough during regular sex. This doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with either of you; it’s just one of those quirks that can happen.
It might help to have an open conversation with him about it. Talk about what you both enjoy and what makes you feel good. The more comfortable you are discussing sexual preferences, the more likely you are to find a solution that works for both of you. Maybe he’ll realize he needs to explore some new things, or maybe he just needs more time to adapt to your specific dynamics.
And lastly, if this continues to be a sticking point and you both feel like it’s affecting your intimacy, it could be a good idea to seek some advice from a professional. But if everything else in the relationship is solid and you both enjoy being together, just keep exploring and communicating!
It’s also worth considering that he’s been single for a while, and sometimes, when guys are solo, they develop particular habits or routines that are hard to break. If he’s used to getting off only with oral, it could take a bit more time for him to feel comfortable or stimulated enough during regular sex. This doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with either of you; it’s just one of those quirks that can happen.
It might help to have an open conversation with him about it. Talk about what you both enjoy and what makes you feel good. The more comfortable you are discussing sexual preferences, the more likely you are to find a solution that works for both of you. Maybe he’ll realize he needs to explore some new things, or maybe he just needs more time to adapt to your specific dynamics.
And lastly, if this continues to be a sticking point and you both feel like it’s affecting your intimacy, it could be a good idea to seek some advice from a professional. But if everything else in the relationship is solid and you both enjoy being together, just keep exploring and communicating!