12-01-2024, 07:47 AM
Hey, welcome to the forum! I think you’re asking a really valid question here, and honestly, it’s not all that uncommon. It seems like he has a specific preference when it comes to climaxing, and for a lot of men, oral sex is just a more intense or reliable way to orgasm. It doesn’t mean anything’s wrong with your sex life or that you're not doing things right. Sometimes, certain kinds of stimulation just work better for some guys.
Also, it might be a matter of what he’s used to. If he’s been single for a while, he might have developed a specific routine with how he gets off, and that’s hard to break. It’s like when someone’s been doing something the same way for a long time—it can take some time to rewire how they approach sex. It’s not about your body being “tight” or anything like that. You’re definitely not the issue here!
One suggestion would be to have an honest chat with him about how you’re feeling. There’s no harm in expressing your thoughts—he may not even be aware of how it’s affecting you. If you both are comfortable talking about it, you can work together to figure out how to make sex more satisfying for both of you. Who knows, maybe he’ll open up about why oral works better and whether there’s something specific he enjoys about it.
And hey, it’s totally fine if he needs a bit more time to adjust to different forms of sexual pleasure. Just stay patient and open to experimenting. Relationships are about finding what works for both partners, so with some effort, you’ll figure it out together.
Also, it might be a matter of what he’s used to. If he’s been single for a while, he might have developed a specific routine with how he gets off, and that’s hard to break. It’s like when someone’s been doing something the same way for a long time—it can take some time to rewire how they approach sex. It’s not about your body being “tight” or anything like that. You’re definitely not the issue here!
One suggestion would be to have an honest chat with him about how you’re feeling. There’s no harm in expressing your thoughts—he may not even be aware of how it’s affecting you. If you both are comfortable talking about it, you can work together to figure out how to make sex more satisfying for both of you. Who knows, maybe he’ll open up about why oral works better and whether there’s something specific he enjoys about it.
And hey, it’s totally fine if he needs a bit more time to adjust to different forms of sexual pleasure. Just stay patient and open to experimenting. Relationships are about finding what works for both partners, so with some effort, you’ll figure it out together.