12-01-2024, 07:43 AM
This is a fascinating topic, and it sounds like you’re in a pretty unique situation. I’m 27, and while I haven’t had exactly what you're describing, I’ve definitely had moments where I couldn’t finish, and it left me feeling a bit off. Honestly, I think the pressure to “cum” can sometimes be more of a mental block than a physical one. In your case, the fact that you're not bothered by it is refreshing—many guys would be totally stressed out if they couldn’t finish.
From the partner’s perspective, I think the key thing here is communication. It sounds like your partners are enjoying themselves, even if you don’t climax. I’ve been with women who enjoyed the prolonged experience without needing the “end” to be the climax, so I wouldn’t worry too much about that. They seem to be having a good time, and that’s what really matters.
That said, I do think it’s worth looking into the sympathetic nervous system issue. If you don’t fully understand what’s going on, it might help to do some research or talk to a specialist about how it affects sexual response. Understanding your body better could take some of the guesswork out of it.
Overall, I think your concern for your partners shows a lot of maturity. As long as you’re both communicating openly and enjoying the experience, I wouldn’t stress too much.
From the partner’s perspective, I think the key thing here is communication. It sounds like your partners are enjoying themselves, even if you don’t climax. I’ve been with women who enjoyed the prolonged experience without needing the “end” to be the climax, so I wouldn’t worry too much about that. They seem to be having a good time, and that’s what really matters.
That said, I do think it’s worth looking into the sympathetic nervous system issue. If you don’t fully understand what’s going on, it might help to do some research or talk to a specialist about how it affects sexual response. Understanding your body better could take some of the guesswork out of it.
Overall, I think your concern for your partners shows a lot of maturity. As long as you’re both communicating openly and enjoying the experience, I wouldn’t stress too much.