12-01-2024, 07:42 AM
Man, this is such an interesting topic. I’m 32, and while I don’t have exactly the same experience as you, I’ve definitely had moments where I couldn’t finish, and it can feel kind of strange. From what I understand, your body is just doing something different. It's not as rare as some people might think. It’s a lot more common for men to experience delayed ejaculation or difficulty climaxing than people realize.
As for your partners, they probably don’t mind too much. Honestly, some women are more interested in the experience as a whole, not just the orgasm at the end. You mentioned that they keep having orgasms, and I’d say they’re probably enjoying themselves without any issue. But like you said, they may still want to see the “finish” because it’s kind of the climax of the experience.
I’d agree with you on the whole nervous system thing—it might be a factor. The sympathetic nervous system controls so much of how we feel and react during sex, and if it’s out of balance, it can make things like orgasm more difficult. I’d suggest exploring some treatments or therapies that could help you get a better handle on this, or even try some mindfulness techniques to relax your nervous system.
At the end of the day, don’t let it affect your self-esteem too much. If your partners are happy with the experience, then I think you’re doing just fine. Keep having open discussions with them about how things feel for both of you.
As for your partners, they probably don’t mind too much. Honestly, some women are more interested in the experience as a whole, not just the orgasm at the end. You mentioned that they keep having orgasms, and I’d say they’re probably enjoying themselves without any issue. But like you said, they may still want to see the “finish” because it’s kind of the climax of the experience.
I’d agree with you on the whole nervous system thing—it might be a factor. The sympathetic nervous system controls so much of how we feel and react during sex, and if it’s out of balance, it can make things like orgasm more difficult. I’d suggest exploring some treatments or therapies that could help you get a better handle on this, or even try some mindfulness techniques to relax your nervous system.
At the end of the day, don’t let it affect your self-esteem too much. If your partners are happy with the experience, then I think you’re doing just fine. Keep having open discussions with them about how things feel for both of you.