12-01-2024, 07:42 AM
Hey man, this is a pretty unique situation. I think a lot of guys would be shocked to hear someone could last for that long without orgasm, but honestly, it happens more than you'd think. The body can just have different responses to sexual arousal, and it sounds like your body is doing something different from the norm. The fact that you’re able to keep an erection for that long shows that you’re physically healthy, so it might just be your nervous system playing tricks on you.
Regarding your partners, I think it's great that you're asking about their feelings. I’ve been with women who said they enjoyed having multiple orgasms, but yeah, there’s always a small desire for the "finish." I think it’s just part of the dynamic; everyone wants to feel like the experience is complete. But from what you’re describing, it doesn’t seem like they’re disappointed by your inability to finish—they seem more focused on their own pleasure.
It sounds like you’re not particularly bothered by not finishing, which is good because it means you’re not putting unnecessary pressure on yourself. However, I’d recommend looking into therapies or even seeing a specialist to get a deeper understanding of how your sympathetic nervous system might be affecting things. That might help clear up some of the confusion you’re feeling about it all.
I’d say keep communicating with your partners about your experience. Sometimes, understanding each other’s needs outside of just physical pleasure can make a huge difference in how enjoyable sex is for both people.
Regarding your partners, I think it's great that you're asking about their feelings. I’ve been with women who said they enjoyed having multiple orgasms, but yeah, there’s always a small desire for the "finish." I think it’s just part of the dynamic; everyone wants to feel like the experience is complete. But from what you’re describing, it doesn’t seem like they’re disappointed by your inability to finish—they seem more focused on their own pleasure.
It sounds like you’re not particularly bothered by not finishing, which is good because it means you’re not putting unnecessary pressure on yourself. However, I’d recommend looking into therapies or even seeing a specialist to get a deeper understanding of how your sympathetic nervous system might be affecting things. That might help clear up some of the confusion you’re feeling about it all.
I’d say keep communicating with your partners about your experience. Sometimes, understanding each other’s needs outside of just physical pleasure can make a huge difference in how enjoyable sex is for both people.