12-01-2024, 07:42 AM
Hey there, I totally get where you're coming from. I’m a 30-year-old guy and I’ve had my own struggles with sexual performance and expectations. From what you’re describing, it sounds like your situation might be more about how your body is responding, and that’s not uncommon. I’ve been with women where I didn’t quite "finish" either, but I focused more on making sure she enjoyed herself—though I do understand the pressure of wanting to satisfy her all the way through. Sometimes it feels like I’m not living up to the expectations.
As for your partners, it's interesting because some women actually prefer a prolonged experience. They’re getting pleasure, so I wouldn't worry too much about them being turned off. They might just feel a little disappointed at the end when it doesn’t wrap up the way they expected, but from what you shared, they seem to enjoy the experience itself. Maybe it's more of a mental thing than a physical one for you.
You mentioned the sympathetic nervous system issue, which sounds like it could be a big factor. Sometimes, when your nervous system is working against you, it can prevent you from reaching orgasm, even if everything else seems fine. Have you tried talking to your doctor about possible treatments or therapies for that?
From my experience, there are definitely guys who can go for long periods without climaxing, but I think it’s important to have a conversation with your partners about expectations. It sounds like you’re doing everything right in terms of their pleasure, but it’s okay to ask for feedback on how they’re feeling. They probably don’t mind as long as they feel satisfied.
As for your partners, it's interesting because some women actually prefer a prolonged experience. They’re getting pleasure, so I wouldn't worry too much about them being turned off. They might just feel a little disappointed at the end when it doesn’t wrap up the way they expected, but from what you shared, they seem to enjoy the experience itself. Maybe it's more of a mental thing than a physical one for you.
You mentioned the sympathetic nervous system issue, which sounds like it could be a big factor. Sometimes, when your nervous system is working against you, it can prevent you from reaching orgasm, even if everything else seems fine. Have you tried talking to your doctor about possible treatments or therapies for that?
From my experience, there are definitely guys who can go for long periods without climaxing, but I think it’s important to have a conversation with your partners about expectations. It sounds like you’re doing everything right in terms of their pleasure, but it’s okay to ask for feedback on how they’re feeling. They probably don’t mind as long as they feel satisfied.