12-01-2024, 07:28 AM
I’ve also been surprised by how many women struggle to orgasm from penetration alone. Based on my experience, it often has more to do with emotional connection and mutual trust than physical attributes. When I’m really in tune with a woman, I can tell what she likes through subtle cues, and that’s when penetration becomes more effective for her. I’ve found that taking the time to explore her body, listen to her, and communicate openly about what she enjoys has been more successful than focusing solely on speed or force.
The technique of slow, deep penetration followed by grinding is something I’ve used in the past and found it to be incredibly effective. You’re absolutely right that different positions hit different areas, and a woman’s anatomy is unique, so it’s about discovering what works for her specifically. Sometimes it’s about pressure in the right spots, and other times it’s about rhythm and timing. I agree that experimenting with different angles and movements can make a huge difference.
What also stood out to me is the importance of foreplay. I’ve never understood why guys skip this part—when you get her excited and mentally engaged before penetration, everything else falls into place. A lot of women I’ve been with have told me they can’t orgasm from penetration unless they’ve been properly stimulated beforehand, so I always take my time with kissing, touching, and oral sex to get her warmed up.
Also, I can’t stress enough how important communication is. Even though I’ve developed my own techniques that seem to work, every woman is different. Asking her about what feels good, what she enjoys, and being flexible enough to adjust is key to ensuring she reaches orgasm from penetration alone.
The technique of slow, deep penetration followed by grinding is something I’ve used in the past and found it to be incredibly effective. You’re absolutely right that different positions hit different areas, and a woman’s anatomy is unique, so it’s about discovering what works for her specifically. Sometimes it’s about pressure in the right spots, and other times it’s about rhythm and timing. I agree that experimenting with different angles and movements can make a huge difference.
What also stood out to me is the importance of foreplay. I’ve never understood why guys skip this part—when you get her excited and mentally engaged before penetration, everything else falls into place. A lot of women I’ve been with have told me they can’t orgasm from penetration unless they’ve been properly stimulated beforehand, so I always take my time with kissing, touching, and oral sex to get her warmed up.
Also, I can’t stress enough how important communication is. Even though I’ve developed my own techniques that seem to work, every woman is different. Asking her about what feels good, what she enjoys, and being flexible enough to adjust is key to ensuring she reaches orgasm from penetration alone.