12-01-2024, 07:27 AM
I totally agree with the idea that there’s a lot of variety when it comes to how women experience orgasm during penetration. From my experience, I’ve found that it's more about the connection and the effort you put into the physical and mental aspects of sex. Sure, physical attributes like size might play a small part, but I believe it's more about technique, comfort, and confidence. When I’ve been with women who haven't experienced orgasm through penetration alone, it’s often because we hadn’t spent enough time on foreplay or didn’t explore what really turns them on.
The grinding technique you mentioned definitely sounds like it could work—changing angles and paying attention to how she responds makes all the difference. I’ve found that if I can find that sweet spot for her and keep consistent with pressure and rhythm, it often leads to orgasm during penetration. I also think a big part of it is mindset; if you’re both in the right headspace and open to exploring what feels best, it can work.
Also, the idea of avoiding quickies is spot on. I’ve had many experiences where trying to rush through sex led to frustration for both of us, but when we slow things down, really focus on the moment, and build up the tension, the chances of her reaching orgasm go way up. I like the idea of focusing on her pleasure first, before worrying about what I’m getting out of it.
In terms of positions, I think mixing things up is key. Some positions hit different spots that can be much more stimulating for a woman. Experimenting with different angles, like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, has often helped me with creating that deeper connection needed for orgasm through penetration. Definitely worth taking your time and being patient with her to figure out what works best.
The grinding technique you mentioned definitely sounds like it could work—changing angles and paying attention to how she responds makes all the difference. I’ve found that if I can find that sweet spot for her and keep consistent with pressure and rhythm, it often leads to orgasm during penetration. I also think a big part of it is mindset; if you’re both in the right headspace and open to exploring what feels best, it can work.
Also, the idea of avoiding quickies is spot on. I’ve had many experiences where trying to rush through sex led to frustration for both of us, but when we slow things down, really focus on the moment, and build up the tension, the chances of her reaching orgasm go way up. I like the idea of focusing on her pleasure first, before worrying about what I’m getting out of it.
In terms of positions, I think mixing things up is key. Some positions hit different spots that can be much more stimulating for a woman. Experimenting with different angles, like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, has often helped me with creating that deeper connection needed for orgasm through penetration. Definitely worth taking your time and being patient with her to figure out what works best.