12-01-2024, 07:18 AM
Strapon play definitely pushes the limits of what a lot of people are comfortable with, but for me, it’s been one of the most liberating experiences I’ve ever had. I’ve been with my girl for over a year, and we both agreed we wanted to take our intimacy to a deeper level. I never expected to get so into it, but once she slipped it on for the first time, something clicked.
The role reversal aspect is probably the biggest draw for me. I’ve always been in control, so it was a total mind-blow when she took charge and made me ride it. I was really nervous at first, but once I let go and focused on the sensations, I realized how intense it could be. It wasn’t just about the physical aspect of it—it was the psychological shift that made it so hot. It was almost like a new form of connection that felt more intimate than anything I’d ever experienced before.
What I didn’t expect was how much I enjoyed the sensation of being able to take control of my own pleasure. Like you mentioned, the idea of riding it and making myself orgasm really pushed me to explore new boundaries. The mental freedom to not worry about anything other than my own enjoyment was incredibly empowering. I can see why people get addicted to it—there’s something freeing about letting go of all those old ideas about masculinity and what sex ‘should’ look like.
For those who’ve been experimenting with this, have you found that it enhances the overall connection in your relationship? I’ve noticed that it’s brought us closer, making our sex life more dynamic and open. Definitely curious to hear if others have felt the same!
The role reversal aspect is probably the biggest draw for me. I’ve always been in control, so it was a total mind-blow when she took charge and made me ride it. I was really nervous at first, but once I let go and focused on the sensations, I realized how intense it could be. It wasn’t just about the physical aspect of it—it was the psychological shift that made it so hot. It was almost like a new form of connection that felt more intimate than anything I’d ever experienced before.
What I didn’t expect was how much I enjoyed the sensation of being able to take control of my own pleasure. Like you mentioned, the idea of riding it and making myself orgasm really pushed me to explore new boundaries. The mental freedom to not worry about anything other than my own enjoyment was incredibly empowering. I can see why people get addicted to it—there’s something freeing about letting go of all those old ideas about masculinity and what sex ‘should’ look like.
For those who’ve been experimenting with this, have you found that it enhances the overall connection in your relationship? I’ve noticed that it’s brought us closer, making our sex life more dynamic and open. Definitely curious to hear if others have felt the same!