Women Have You Had Lovers Who Took Too Long To Orgasm?

[hanar123]

That’s an interesting one, because I’ve seen both sides of the story. One of my exes was really sensitive about me taking too long, while another was totally fine with it. To me, it feels like a case of expectations versus reality. A lot of guys put a lot of pressure on themselves to ‘last longer,’ which can actually make it harder to reach the goal when it matters.

I think there’s something to be said about how involved the woman is, too. If she’s already mentally checked out, it’s going to affect the whole experience. You can’t just expect her to stay interested if she’s not invested in the buildup. I mean, I get it, some women don’t need much foreplay, but if she’s admitting that she doesn’t engage much in it except for oral, then she might be missing out on building that emotional and physical connection.

It’s important for both partners to feel like they’re in sync. If she’s feeling like she’s ‘done’ and can’t be bothered to let him finish, then that could be a sign they need to reevaluate their approach to intimacy. Maybe they should have a candid conversation about what works for both of them.

Ultimately, I think being patient with each other and not rushing toward orgasm could solve a lot of issues. I don’t think taking longer to climax is the problem—it’s more about figuring out how to enjoy the journey together.