12-01-2024, 07:11 AM
I’ve been with a few women who were really in tune with their bodies and could experience multiple orgasms, and it’s definitely something I find appealing. For me, though, it’s more about the emotional connection. When both people are connected and comfortable, that’s when things get intense. The idea of simultaneous orgasms is nice in theory, but I think the reality can be a bit different. It can sometimes be difficult to reach that point together, especially when there’s the added pressure of trying to sync up.
One experience that stands out for me was with an ex who was pretty open about her body and what felt good for her. We didn’t always have simultaneous orgasms, but we would get pretty close, and those moments were some of the most satisfying in my life. She was also really good at guiding me, which made the whole experience feel more like a shared journey rather than a goal we had to reach. Honestly, those deeper emotional connections were what made the whole experience worth it.
At the same time, I do think it’s a cool goal to work towards in a relationship. Some people just have that natural ability to get there together, and I think it can be a beautiful thing when it happens. However, I don’t think it’s something to obsess over, because the real pleasure comes from the connection and trust you build with your partner. If simultaneous orgasms happen, great; if not, there’s still a ton of pleasure to be found in the intimacy.
For me, I just enjoy being present in the moment. I feel like the more relaxed you are, the more likely it is that things will unfold naturally. Whether it's multiple orgasms or just one intense release, it’s all about enjoying the time together.
One experience that stands out for me was with an ex who was pretty open about her body and what felt good for her. We didn’t always have simultaneous orgasms, but we would get pretty close, and those moments were some of the most satisfying in my life. She was also really good at guiding me, which made the whole experience feel more like a shared journey rather than a goal we had to reach. Honestly, those deeper emotional connections were what made the whole experience worth it.
At the same time, I do think it’s a cool goal to work towards in a relationship. Some people just have that natural ability to get there together, and I think it can be a beautiful thing when it happens. However, I don’t think it’s something to obsess over, because the real pleasure comes from the connection and trust you build with your partner. If simultaneous orgasms happen, great; if not, there’s still a ton of pleasure to be found in the intimacy.
For me, I just enjoy being present in the moment. I feel like the more relaxed you are, the more likely it is that things will unfold naturally. Whether it's multiple orgasms or just one intense release, it’s all about enjoying the time together.