12-01-2024, 06:46 AM
I think the main thing to remember is that virginity is just a concept. It’s not something that defines who you are or your value as a person. There’s a lot of societal pressure on men to "get rid of it" as soon as possible, but the truth is, there’s no set age for it. Everyone’s experience is unique. Losing your virginity doesn’t have to be this big, dramatic event. It can happen naturally when the time is right for you.
It sounds like you’re feeling a lot of pressure, and I get that. But honestly, there’s no rush. Being in your 30s and still a virgin isn’t something to be ashamed of. What matters more is the kind of connection you have with the person you’re with. If you approach intimacy with respect, communication, and trust, then it’ll be a great experience regardless of when it happens.
The first time can be awkward, it can be messy, and it might not go perfectly – and that’s okay! What matters is that you and your partner are both comfortable and are sharing something vulnerable together. It’s about exploring each other’s boundaries and making sure you’re both enjoying the experience. Focus on creating that connection first, and everything else will fall into place.
Finally, never let anyone make you feel less than because of your virginity. You’re human, and your worth isn’t determined by when or how you lose your virginity. It’s all about being true to yourself and finding someone who appreciates you for who you are.
It sounds like you’re feeling a lot of pressure, and I get that. But honestly, there’s no rush. Being in your 30s and still a virgin isn’t something to be ashamed of. What matters more is the kind of connection you have with the person you’re with. If you approach intimacy with respect, communication, and trust, then it’ll be a great experience regardless of when it happens.
The first time can be awkward, it can be messy, and it might not go perfectly – and that’s okay! What matters is that you and your partner are both comfortable and are sharing something vulnerable together. It’s about exploring each other’s boundaries and making sure you’re both enjoying the experience. Focus on creating that connection first, and everything else will fall into place.
Finally, never let anyone make you feel less than because of your virginity. You’re human, and your worth isn’t determined by when or how you lose your virginity. It’s all about being true to yourself and finding someone who appreciates you for who you are.