12-01-2024, 06:45 AM
I hear you, man, and I think it's awesome that you're being so honest about it. Honestly, society makes such a big deal out of virginity, especially for men, and it often leads to unnecessary pressure. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for where you’re at in life, and there’s no need to rush just because people say you "should." I know some people who lost their virginity early and still haven’t had a meaningful sexual connection, so waiting for the right person can actually be a good thing.
The best advice I could give is to focus on building connections that matter. Virginity is just a label, but the emotional bond you form with a partner is what truly makes intimacy special. If you’re constantly anxious about your first time, it might help to talk through those feelings with someone. It could be a friend, or even a therapist, to make sure you’re in a good mental space before it happens. Being confident about your emotions will make everything smoother and more enjoyable when the right opportunity comes.
Also, don't fall into the trap of thinking it has to be some perfect experience. The first time doesn’t have to be some grand moment. What matters is the emotional connection and the trust you share with the other person. You don’t have to lose your virginity with a perfect plan in mind. Sometimes, things just fall into place when you're not stressing over every little detail.
Finally, just know you're not alone in this. There are plenty of men who are still virgins at 30, and beyond. Everyone moves at their own pace. The key is not to let societal expectations or self-imposed pressure define your journey. You'll get there when you're ready.
The best advice I could give is to focus on building connections that matter. Virginity is just a label, but the emotional bond you form with a partner is what truly makes intimacy special. If you’re constantly anxious about your first time, it might help to talk through those feelings with someone. It could be a friend, or even a therapist, to make sure you’re in a good mental space before it happens. Being confident about your emotions will make everything smoother and more enjoyable when the right opportunity comes.
Also, don't fall into the trap of thinking it has to be some perfect experience. The first time doesn’t have to be some grand moment. What matters is the emotional connection and the trust you share with the other person. You don’t have to lose your virginity with a perfect plan in mind. Sometimes, things just fall into place when you're not stressing over every little detail.
Finally, just know you're not alone in this. There are plenty of men who are still virgins at 30, and beyond. Everyone moves at their own pace. The key is not to let societal expectations or self-imposed pressure define your journey. You'll get there when you're ready.