12-01-2024, 06:44 AM
From my experience, the combination of clitoral orgasm followed by penetration is actually very common. For many women, clitoral stimulation is the easiest way to reach orgasm, and then penetration adds another layer of sensation. Your wife’s response to wanting penetration right after orgasm makes sense, as the sensation of climax tends to make everything feel more intense. You’re on the right track with starting with hand stimulation—it’s personal and intimate, and it’s a great way to make sure she’s primed for the next step.
To make it even better, maybe try to be more in tune with how her body responds during the transition. Some women may find that after an orgasm, their sensitivity is heightened, so you could slow down a little when moving to penetration. For others, they might want you to go a bit faster. I’ve found that talking in the moment can really help. Some women like a little dirty talk or some encouragement, so paying attention to those cues can make a huge difference.
You could also try using different positions to change the angle during penetration. This can enhance the pleasure for both of you, especially if you're transitioning right after orgasm. Some positions allow for more direct stimulation of the clitoris during penetration, so it’s something worth experimenting with.
Lastly, making sure she’s fully relaxed and comfortable after her orgasm can help. Sometimes, a quick cuddle or a soft touch after sex can prolong that sense of pleasure and make the experience even more intimate. It’s all about making her feel cared for and cherished in the moment.
To make it even better, maybe try to be more in tune with how her body responds during the transition. Some women may find that after an orgasm, their sensitivity is heightened, so you could slow down a little when moving to penetration. For others, they might want you to go a bit faster. I’ve found that talking in the moment can really help. Some women like a little dirty talk or some encouragement, so paying attention to those cues can make a huge difference.
You could also try using different positions to change the angle during penetration. This can enhance the pleasure for both of you, especially if you're transitioning right after orgasm. Some positions allow for more direct stimulation of the clitoris during penetration, so it’s something worth experimenting with.
Lastly, making sure she’s fully relaxed and comfortable after her orgasm can help. Sometimes, a quick cuddle or a soft touch after sex can prolong that sense of pleasure and make the experience even more intimate. It’s all about making her feel cared for and cherished in the moment.