12-01-2024, 06:44 AM
Great question, and I totally get where you're coming from. From what I’ve experienced, starting with clitoral stimulation before penetration is definitely a common pattern, especially for women who find it harder to orgasm through vaginal penetration alone. The transition from clitoral orgasm to penetration can be a really sweet spot if done right. Some women like the feeling of that initial release and then want the deeper connection from penetration afterward.
What could make the experience even better? First off, I’d say play with rhythm. Sometimes, switching up the speed or even using different pressure when stimulating her clitoris can change the sensation completely. For example, you might try starting with slower, lighter touches before building intensity. Then, with penetration, you can adjust the pace to match what she’s feeling.
Another thing that works is taking your time during foreplay. I know it’s easy to get straight to the ‘main event,’ but lingering a little longer on clitoral stimulation can not only heighten her orgasm but also make the penetration part more satisfying for her. This builds up anticipation and can make the whole experience feel more connected and intense.
Lastly, it might be worth trying different positions or techniques for both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. For example, if you're doing manual clitoral play, try a position where you can access her from a different angle during penetration. It could lead to better friction or stimulation during the act. The key is being flexible and open to experimenting.
What could make the experience even better? First off, I’d say play with rhythm. Sometimes, switching up the speed or even using different pressure when stimulating her clitoris can change the sensation completely. For example, you might try starting with slower, lighter touches before building intensity. Then, with penetration, you can adjust the pace to match what she’s feeling.
Another thing that works is taking your time during foreplay. I know it’s easy to get straight to the ‘main event,’ but lingering a little longer on clitoral stimulation can not only heighten her orgasm but also make the penetration part more satisfying for her. This builds up anticipation and can make the whole experience feel more connected and intense.
Lastly, it might be worth trying different positions or techniques for both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. For example, if you're doing manual clitoral play, try a position where you can access her from a different angle during penetration. It could lead to better friction or stimulation during the act. The key is being flexible and open to experimenting.