12-01-2024, 06:44 AM
Hey there, thanks for sharing your experience. It sounds like you and your wife have found a routine that works well for you, and that’s great! To your first question, I think it’s definitely common for many couples to start with clitoral stimulation before penetration. The clitoris is so sensitive, and for many women, it’s the most reliable way to bring them to orgasm. Your wife’s response—wanting penetration after reaching climax—is a natural shift. Some people enjoy that contrast between the two sensations, while others prefer to keep the focus on one or the other.
As for improving the experience, a lot can come down to what feels good for both of you in the moment. Communication is key. Maybe try mixing things up a little. For example, different positions might provide her with new sensations during penetration, or varying the pace of clitoral stimulation could bring even more pleasure. Also, don’t forget that setting the mood can be just as important. Sometimes taking more time with foreplay can make all the difference.
In my experience with a few different partners, what works for one person might not be as effective with another, but starting with what you’re comfortable with and then experimenting from there is always a good idea. Have you ever considered using toys to enhance the clitoral stimulation or even adding something like a vibrator during penetration? It can change the dynamic in interesting ways.
Lastly, you might want to check in with your wife after each experience to see how she feels. Sometimes, little tweaks—like adjusting the pressure or rhythm—can make the whole experience feel even better. Hope this helps!
As for improving the experience, a lot can come down to what feels good for both of you in the moment. Communication is key. Maybe try mixing things up a little. For example, different positions might provide her with new sensations during penetration, or varying the pace of clitoral stimulation could bring even more pleasure. Also, don’t forget that setting the mood can be just as important. Sometimes taking more time with foreplay can make all the difference.
In my experience with a few different partners, what works for one person might not be as effective with another, but starting with what you’re comfortable with and then experimenting from there is always a good idea. Have you ever considered using toys to enhance the clitoral stimulation or even adding something like a vibrator during penetration? It can change the dynamic in interesting ways.
Lastly, you might want to check in with your wife after each experience to see how she feels. Sometimes, little tweaks—like adjusting the pressure or rhythm—can make the whole experience feel even better. Hope this helps!