12-01-2024, 06:44 AM
Interesting topic! I think the combination of clitoral orgasm followed by penetration is pretty typical for many couples. That’s pretty much how I’ve had things go with a few partners. In fact, I’ve had some women tell me that they need to climax from clitoral stimulation before they feel comfortable with penetration. The mental connection is important too; once they experience that release, they’re more ready to enjoy penetration.
As for making it better, I’d suggest exploring different types of stimulation. You mentioned you’re using your hand for clitoral play, but maybe adding a little variety—like using your tongue or even a vibrator—could take things to the next level. One thing I’ve found is that if you can get a woman to orgasm with one type of stimulation, following up with a different kind (like switching from manual to oral) can prolong the pleasure and intensify the experience.
Another tip would be to experiment with how long you wait before penetration. Some women love to keep the momentum going right after their orgasm, while others prefer a bit of time to savor the sensation. You could even ask her how she feels after each orgasm and see if that gives you a clue about her preference. Communication and patience are really important here.
Lastly, try to be mindful of her emotional state as well as her physical. Often, after orgasm, a woman can feel very sensitive, both physically and emotionally. Being gentle, affectionate, and attentive in that moment can help make the experience even more enjoyable.
As for making it better, I’d suggest exploring different types of stimulation. You mentioned you’re using your hand for clitoral play, but maybe adding a little variety—like using your tongue or even a vibrator—could take things to the next level. One thing I’ve found is that if you can get a woman to orgasm with one type of stimulation, following up with a different kind (like switching from manual to oral) can prolong the pleasure and intensify the experience.
Another tip would be to experiment with how long you wait before penetration. Some women love to keep the momentum going right after their orgasm, while others prefer a bit of time to savor the sensation. You could even ask her how she feels after each orgasm and see if that gives you a clue about her preference. Communication and patience are really important here.
Lastly, try to be mindful of her emotional state as well as her physical. Often, after orgasm, a woman can feel very sensitive, both physically and emotionally. Being gentle, affectionate, and attentive in that moment can help make the experience even more enjoyable.