12-01-2024, 06:44 AM
Sounds like you've got a solid routine, but to answer your first question, what you’re describing is pretty common. I’ve been with a few partners where clitoral stimulation is necessary for orgasm, and once they hit that peak, they want penetration. It’s definitely a good place to start because the clitoris is usually the quickest route to orgasm for many women. I’d say the key is in the transition—how you move from clitoral focus to penetration, and making sure it feels as smooth and pleasurable as possible.
If you’re looking to elevate the experience, consider the pacing of both actions. I’ve found that slowing things down can increase anticipation and make the transition smoother. For example, instead of going straight into penetration after orgasm, maybe give her a little time to enjoy the aftershocks of her clitoral orgasm before diving in. It adds to the build-up. Sometimes, a little break in between can make things even more intense when you go back to penetration.
Also, have you considered the use of lube? It might seem like an obvious thing, but some women find that a bit more lubrication helps make penetration feel even better after clitoral stimulation. It can reduce any discomfort, especially if she's already had an orgasm and her sensitivity is heightened.
Finally, you don’t have to always stick to the same formula. Mix things up a bit! You could try different positions, or even introduce light bondage or role-playing if that’s something both of you are into. It’s all about variety and keeping the excitement alive. All the best!
If you’re looking to elevate the experience, consider the pacing of both actions. I’ve found that slowing things down can increase anticipation and make the transition smoother. For example, instead of going straight into penetration after orgasm, maybe give her a little time to enjoy the aftershocks of her clitoral orgasm before diving in. It adds to the build-up. Sometimes, a little break in between can make things even more intense when you go back to penetration.
Also, have you considered the use of lube? It might seem like an obvious thing, but some women find that a bit more lubrication helps make penetration feel even better after clitoral stimulation. It can reduce any discomfort, especially if she's already had an orgasm and her sensitivity is heightened.
Finally, you don’t have to always stick to the same formula. Mix things up a bit! You could try different positions, or even introduce light bondage or role-playing if that’s something both of you are into. It’s all about variety and keeping the excitement alive. All the best!