12-01-2024, 06:42 AM
I used to think every woman could squirt until I was with a partner who couldn’t, and I got a much clearer picture of things. Sure, there’s a lot of talk about how any woman can do it with the right techniques or stimulation, but I’ve come to realize that it’s just not the case for everyone. Some women have the ability to squirt, but for others, it’s simply not something they can do.
What’s interesting to me is the whole pressure to perform angle. Some men (and women) seem to think that squirting is a benchmark for a good sex life. But in reality, pleasure is a much deeper, more nuanced experience. If a woman enjoys herself, that’s what really matters, regardless of whether there’s a squirt or not.
Also, I’ve noticed that the women who do squirt seem to have different experiences. It’s not like they can always do it every time—it’s more about their body’s response at that particular moment. So while some can squirt, it might not happen every single time, and that’s okay.
At the end of the day, I think it’s essential to let go of any expectations around squirting and just enjoy the connection. Focus on what feels good for both of you, and trust that the experience will be satisfying without needing to hit a certain “milestone.
What’s interesting to me is the whole pressure to perform angle. Some men (and women) seem to think that squirting is a benchmark for a good sex life. But in reality, pleasure is a much deeper, more nuanced experience. If a woman enjoys herself, that’s what really matters, regardless of whether there’s a squirt or not.
Also, I’ve noticed that the women who do squirt seem to have different experiences. It’s not like they can always do it every time—it’s more about their body’s response at that particular moment. So while some can squirt, it might not happen every single time, and that’s okay.
At the end of the day, I think it’s essential to let go of any expectations around squirting and just enjoy the connection. Focus on what feels good for both of you, and trust that the experience will be satisfying without needing to hit a certain “milestone.