12-01-2024, 06:41 AM
I’m glad to see a post like this—orgasm is a topic that really needs more attention. I’ve noticed that how I experience orgasm changes depending on a lot of things—who I’m with, where we are, how much time we have, and even how I’m feeling that day. Sometimes it’s an overwhelming, full-body sensation, and other times, it’s more of a quick burst that feels good, but it’s not life-changing.
From my experience, a lot of it comes down to how comfortable I am with the person and how much effort we both put into creating a connection. If there’s no emotional connection or if I’m distracted, it’s harder to let go, and that affects how intense the orgasm feels. That’s not something people often talk about, but I think it’s one of the most important factors. It’s not just the physical, but also the mental space you’re in.
I’ve heard from a few women who have mentioned difficulties in achieving orgasm, and it’s always made me wonder how common this is. Some of them have said it’s a mix of stress, not feeling comfortable, or not knowing what they need. I think there’s so much more to explore here, and I’m glad there are researchers like you diving into it.
Anyone else feel like the connection you have with your partner really changes the sensation of orgasm? I’d love to hear more from people who’ve had different experiences.
From my experience, a lot of it comes down to how comfortable I am with the person and how much effort we both put into creating a connection. If there’s no emotional connection or if I’m distracted, it’s harder to let go, and that affects how intense the orgasm feels. That’s not something people often talk about, but I think it’s one of the most important factors. It’s not just the physical, but also the mental space you’re in.
I’ve heard from a few women who have mentioned difficulties in achieving orgasm, and it’s always made me wonder how common this is. Some of them have said it’s a mix of stress, not feeling comfortable, or not knowing what they need. I think there’s so much more to explore here, and I’m glad there are researchers like you diving into it.
Anyone else feel like the connection you have with your partner really changes the sensation of orgasm? I’d love to hear more from people who’ve had different experiences.