12-01-2024, 06:40 AM
I’ve been in your shoes before, and I know how discouraging it can feel. The main thing I’ve learned is that every guy’s body is different, and what works for one person might not work for another. It sounds like you’re already on the right track by communicating with your girlfriend, but I’d suggest trying a few more things. For me, it was all about finding the right technique. The speed and pressure during oral sex or hand jobs can make a big difference.
Another factor is getting in the right headspace. It’s easy to get caught up in the pressure to perform, especially when you’re close but can’t quite finish. I found that focusing on the sensations and intimacy rather than just aiming for the orgasm was a huge help. When you’re not stressing about the outcome, it makes everything flow a lot easier.
Also, if you’ve tried everything and it still doesn’t seem to work, consider talking to a doctor. Sometimes there are underlying health issues, like hormone imbalances or even medications that affect sexual performance. It doesn’t hurt to get a professional opinion if this keeps happening.
Lastly, try to keep it fun. Sometimes experimenting with different positions or even incorporating toys can add a new dynamic to things. Keep an open mind and communicate with your partner—you’ll get through this!
Another factor is getting in the right headspace. It’s easy to get caught up in the pressure to perform, especially when you’re close but can’t quite finish. I found that focusing on the sensations and intimacy rather than just aiming for the orgasm was a huge help. When you’re not stressing about the outcome, it makes everything flow a lot easier.
Also, if you’ve tried everything and it still doesn’t seem to work, consider talking to a doctor. Sometimes there are underlying health issues, like hormone imbalances or even medications that affect sexual performance. It doesn’t hurt to get a professional opinion if this keeps happening.
Lastly, try to keep it fun. Sometimes experimenting with different positions or even incorporating toys can add a new dynamic to things. Keep an open mind and communicate with your partner—you’ll get through this!