12-01-2024, 06:39 AM
I get what you’re going through, man. I used to struggle with not being able to finish during oral or manual stimulation too. One thing that helped me was being more vocal about what felt good. Sometimes, the key is just letting your partner know exactly how you like it. Try guiding her hand or head and don’t be shy to adjust things. If you don’t feel like you’re about to cum, let her know what you want.
It also helped me to experiment with different types of stimulation. For a while, I didn’t realize that I needed more pressure around the base of my penis during oral. I guess I had just never told my partner that before. Once we figured that out, things started improving. The body’s response to touch is pretty unique, so don’t be afraid to ask for what feels right.
Another factor to consider is mental distractions. I noticed that the more I focused on “not finishing,” the harder it became. Try to focus on how good it feels and let the orgasm come naturally. Removing the pressure can make all the difference.
Lastly, try not to overthink it. Just keep experimenting, communicating with your girlfriend, and being patient. Sex is about enjoying the journey, not just the destination. Don’t stress too much, and eventually, things will click.
It also helped me to experiment with different types of stimulation. For a while, I didn’t realize that I needed more pressure around the base of my penis during oral. I guess I had just never told my partner that before. Once we figured that out, things started improving. The body’s response to touch is pretty unique, so don’t be afraid to ask for what feels right.
Another factor to consider is mental distractions. I noticed that the more I focused on “not finishing,” the harder it became. Try to focus on how good it feels and let the orgasm come naturally. Removing the pressure can make all the difference.
Lastly, try not to overthink it. Just keep experimenting, communicating with your girlfriend, and being patient. Sex is about enjoying the journey, not just the destination. Don’t stress too much, and eventually, things will click.