12-01-2024, 06:39 AM
Man, I’ve been where you are. After a couple of years with my girlfriend, we started hitting a plateau in the bedroom. She would get me so close but never quite there, and it felt like something was missing. We tried changing positions and playing around with different types of touch, but what finally worked was communicating what I actually needed. A lot of it came down to me being open about what kind of pressure and rhythm really worked.
Another thing to consider is how often you’re masturbating. I didn’t realize it, but I was overdoing it, and it was affecting my response when it came to real sex. Cutting back on solo sessions helped me become more sensitive to my girlfriend’s touch, so it was easier to climax. Maybe try that if you haven’t yet.
I also think the environment matters more than we give it credit for. If there’s any tension or pressure in the room, it can interfere with your ability to orgasm. We started doing things like setting the mood with candles or just talking more openly before sex, which made the whole experience more relaxed and enjoyable.
If you feel like you’ve tried everything and it’s still not working, it might be worth seeing a doctor. Sometimes things like stress, anxiety, or even low testosterone can interfere with sexual function. Don’t be afraid to get checked out if it keeps happening.
Another thing to consider is how often you’re masturbating. I didn’t realize it, but I was overdoing it, and it was affecting my response when it came to real sex. Cutting back on solo sessions helped me become more sensitive to my girlfriend’s touch, so it was easier to climax. Maybe try that if you haven’t yet.
I also think the environment matters more than we give it credit for. If there’s any tension or pressure in the room, it can interfere with your ability to orgasm. We started doing things like setting the mood with candles or just talking more openly before sex, which made the whole experience more relaxed and enjoyable.
If you feel like you’ve tried everything and it’s still not working, it might be worth seeing a doctor. Sometimes things like stress, anxiety, or even low testosterone can interfere with sexual function. Don’t be afraid to get checked out if it keeps happening.