12-01-2024, 06:39 AM
Hey man, I feel your pain. I had a similar issue a while ago, and it was seriously starting to affect my confidence. I don’t think it’s about performance so much as it’s about finding what works for your body. Some people need a combination of techniques, and others might need a more specific kind of touch. For me, focusing on the pressure during oral sex was a game-changer.
One thing I noticed is that stress or even external worries can really impact your ability to finish. It’s hard to get into the right headspace when you’re thinking about work or life stuff. Try setting up a more relaxed atmosphere. Maybe dim the lights, play some calming music, and really focus on being present with your partner. When your mind isn’t distracted, the physical sensations can come through more clearly.
Another thing that helped me was talking with my partner about the mental aspect of sex. I used to be too embarrassed to talk openly about it, but once we did, it felt like a weight was lifted. Just explaining how I was feeling or what I needed really made a difference. It’s all about open communication, bro—don’t be afraid to speak up about what feels good and what doesn’t.
If you’ve already tried these things and it’s still not working, maybe it’s worth looking into other factors. Hormonal imbalances or even certain medications can affect sexual function, so you might want to check with a healthcare professional. Don’t stress—this is a lot more common than you think.
One thing I noticed is that stress or even external worries can really impact your ability to finish. It’s hard to get into the right headspace when you’re thinking about work or life stuff. Try setting up a more relaxed atmosphere. Maybe dim the lights, play some calming music, and really focus on being present with your partner. When your mind isn’t distracted, the physical sensations can come through more clearly.
Another thing that helped me was talking with my partner about the mental aspect of sex. I used to be too embarrassed to talk openly about it, but once we did, it felt like a weight was lifted. Just explaining how I was feeling or what I needed really made a difference. It’s all about open communication, bro—don’t be afraid to speak up about what feels good and what doesn’t.
If you’ve already tried these things and it’s still not working, maybe it’s worth looking into other factors. Hormonal imbalances or even certain medications can affect sexual function, so you might want to check with a healthcare professional. Don’t stress—this is a lot more common than you think.