12-01-2024, 06:36 AM
Honestly, I’ve never had to deal with cum-shyness in the same way you described, but I can see how it can become an issue. I’ve had my fair share of “messy” experiences, and it’s something that requires a bit of tact. Some people are totally fine with it, while others prefer not to get involved with the aftermath. The key is definitely finding someone who shares your preferences, but also understanding theirs. It sounds like you and your partner found a good rhythm together!
I think the way you framed it—being willing to deal with the mess yourself—is a pretty solid approach. It’s about owning up to it and making sure the other person isn’t uncomfortable. Personally, I’ve had to be mindful of how my partners feel about it. Sometimes it can be overwhelming, and I’ve had to change things up—like pulling out early or using protection. But it really comes down to a good conversation beforehand. Some people love the mess; others don’t.
As for the cleanup, I’m all about taking responsibility for that. The last thing you want is to leave your partner in an uncomfortable situation. A lot of people forget that the aftercare is just as important as the sex itself. I’ve always made sure to clean up thoroughly, not just out of courtesy but because it’s part of being a considerate partner.
And I get what you mean about the “flavors of life.” There’s something uniquely intimate about that part of the experience, and when it’s with someone who enjoys it too, it just takes things to another level.
I think the way you framed it—being willing to deal with the mess yourself—is a pretty solid approach. It’s about owning up to it and making sure the other person isn’t uncomfortable. Personally, I’ve had to be mindful of how my partners feel about it. Sometimes it can be overwhelming, and I’ve had to change things up—like pulling out early or using protection. But it really comes down to a good conversation beforehand. Some people love the mess; others don’t.
As for the cleanup, I’m all about taking responsibility for that. The last thing you want is to leave your partner in an uncomfortable situation. A lot of people forget that the aftercare is just as important as the sex itself. I’ve always made sure to clean up thoroughly, not just out of courtesy but because it’s part of being a considerate partner.
And I get what you mean about the “flavors of life.” There’s something uniquely intimate about that part of the experience, and when it’s with someone who enjoys it too, it just takes things to another level.