12-01-2024, 06:36 AM
I can totally relate to what you’re saying. Cum is a huge part of sex, but not everyone knows how to handle it. It can get pretty messy, and there are definitely some girls out there who aren’t too fond of it. I’ve had similar experiences where my partner was like, “Okay, that’s enough,” and I had to figure out another way to finish. It’s a bit of a challenge to find someone who’s okay with all of it. But once you find the right person, things just seem to flow naturally.
I do agree with you about the trust factor. Once you’re both comfortable with each other, things get a lot easier. My ex didn’t mind at all when I made a mess, but I always made sure to clean up after. It’s just about being respectful, and I think the woman appreciates it. There’s nothing worse than feeling awkward about something so natural, so communication is key.
What you said about breaking the “cum shy” thing is spot on. It took me a while to get comfortable with it too, but once I did, it just felt right. When you’re with someone who’s into it and doesn’t mind the mess, it adds a layer of excitement to the whole experience. There’s a sense of freedom that comes with it. It’s one of those things that you can’t really plan for; it’s about going with the flow and adapting to each other’s needs.
That being said, I’ve also learned that it’s okay to set boundaries. If your partner doesn’t want to deal with it, then it’s best to respect that. The key is making sure both of you are on the same page.
I do agree with you about the trust factor. Once you’re both comfortable with each other, things get a lot easier. My ex didn’t mind at all when I made a mess, but I always made sure to clean up after. It’s just about being respectful, and I think the woman appreciates it. There’s nothing worse than feeling awkward about something so natural, so communication is key.
What you said about breaking the “cum shy” thing is spot on. It took me a while to get comfortable with it too, but once I did, it just felt right. When you’re with someone who’s into it and doesn’t mind the mess, it adds a layer of excitement to the whole experience. There’s a sense of freedom that comes with it. It’s one of those things that you can’t really plan for; it’s about going with the flow and adapting to each other’s needs.
That being said, I’ve also learned that it’s okay to set boundaries. If your partner doesn’t want to deal with it, then it’s best to respect that. The key is making sure both of you are on the same page.