12-01-2024, 06:36 AM
I love that you’re open about this topic! It’s something not a lot of people are willing to discuss, but it’s definitely part of the reality when it comes to sex. I think the key here is what you said about making a deal. When both parties are open to figuring out a solution, the experience can be a lot more enjoyable. In my experience, I’ve had to deal with a lot of cum, and it wasn’t always the easiest thing. Some girls are cool with it, and others just can’t handle it.
What I’ve noticed is that a lot of it comes down to the emotional connection. If the person you’re with doesn’t feel comfortable with the mess, then it’s up to you to be respectful and find alternatives. For example, pulling out or using protection could be good ways to deal with the situation, but it all depends on what’s mutually agreed upon. I think it’s really important to talk openly and figure out what works for both people.
The “creampie” experience is a good one to discuss too. I’ve had a few girls who loved it, and I think there’s something special about sharing that moment. It’s a little messy, sure, but there’s a sense of intimacy that can come with it. As long as you’re both comfortable, it can be a great part of your sexual experience. For me, it's always been about making the other person feel comfortable, so it never feels awkward.
And yes, the cleanup! I think that’s a big part of the deal. If you're with someone who’s down for the experience, being considerate afterward can go a long way. It’s a small gesture that can make a huge difference.
What I’ve noticed is that a lot of it comes down to the emotional connection. If the person you’re with doesn’t feel comfortable with the mess, then it’s up to you to be respectful and find alternatives. For example, pulling out or using protection could be good ways to deal with the situation, but it all depends on what’s mutually agreed upon. I think it’s really important to talk openly and figure out what works for both people.
The “creampie” experience is a good one to discuss too. I’ve had a few girls who loved it, and I think there’s something special about sharing that moment. It’s a little messy, sure, but there’s a sense of intimacy that can come with it. As long as you’re both comfortable, it can be a great part of your sexual experience. For me, it's always been about making the other person feel comfortable, so it never feels awkward.
And yes, the cleanup! I think that’s a big part of the deal. If you're with someone who’s down for the experience, being considerate afterward can go a long way. It’s a small gesture that can make a huge difference.