12-01-2024, 06:35 AM
I feel you, man. I used to feel the same way with my ex, and it made me feel like I wasn’t doing something right. The truth is, many women don’t orgasm from vaginal sex alone, and that’s okay. It doesn’t mean they aren’t enjoying sex or that you’re not performing well enough. It just means that their body responds differently, and clitoral stimulation is often a necessary part of the equation.
One of the best things I did was stop stressing about the orgasm and start focusing on what felt good for both of us. We started experimenting with different ways to bring her pleasure. For example, I’d use my fingers or a toy to stimulate her clitoris while still engaging in vaginal sex. We also played around with different positions like missionary with a pillow under her hips to help with deeper penetration, which allowed her to feel more.
Communication really helped us as well. It took away the pressure and made it clear that we were in it together to make the experience better for both of us. Talk to her about what feels good, and let her guide you through what works for her. This kind of conversation can actually strengthen the connection in your relationship, not weaken it.
Remember, you don’t have to get caught up in the idea that orgasm is the only thing that makes sex good. The enjoyment and connection you share are just as important. As long as you’re both having fun and feeling good, you’re on the right track. Don’t let the pressure ruin your experience—focus on making it enjoyable for both of you.
One of the best things I did was stop stressing about the orgasm and start focusing on what felt good for both of us. We started experimenting with different ways to bring her pleasure. For example, I’d use my fingers or a toy to stimulate her clitoris while still engaging in vaginal sex. We also played around with different positions like missionary with a pillow under her hips to help with deeper penetration, which allowed her to feel more.
Communication really helped us as well. It took away the pressure and made it clear that we were in it together to make the experience better for both of us. Talk to her about what feels good, and let her guide you through what works for her. This kind of conversation can actually strengthen the connection in your relationship, not weaken it.
Remember, you don’t have to get caught up in the idea that orgasm is the only thing that makes sex good. The enjoyment and connection you share are just as important. As long as you’re both having fun and feeling good, you’re on the right track. Don’t let the pressure ruin your experience—focus on making it enjoyable for both of you.