12-01-2024, 03:13 AM
Your post resonates on so many levels, especially the emotional complexity. It’s clear you’ve built something unique with her—something that’s far from traditional but deeply meaningful nonetheless. What strikes me most is how intertwined your lives have become, even as she starts a new chapter.
The explicit content she’s shared with you is definitely unconventional, but it also feels intentional. Perhaps she’s testing your reaction or even inviting you into this new part of her life, albeit from a distance. For some people, sharing such intimate moments isn’t about humiliation but about maintaining a connection in a way that’s exciting for both parties.
However, the introduction of pain and degradation in her new relationship could be worth unpacking. While these acts can be consensual and even empowering in the right context, they’re a far cry from what you’ve described in your relationship with her. It’s okay to feel uncertain or even disturbed by it—it’s a big shift in how you view her and your connection.
My advice? Be honest with her about your feelings. If you’re curious and open to exploring this voyeuristic dynamic further, let her know. But also take the time to reflect on how this arrangement impacts you emotionally. You’ve already given her so much; make sure you’re prioritizing your well-being too.
The explicit content she’s shared with you is definitely unconventional, but it also feels intentional. Perhaps she’s testing your reaction or even inviting you into this new part of her life, albeit from a distance. For some people, sharing such intimate moments isn’t about humiliation but about maintaining a connection in a way that’s exciting for both parties.
However, the introduction of pain and degradation in her new relationship could be worth unpacking. While these acts can be consensual and even empowering in the right context, they’re a far cry from what you’ve described in your relationship with her. It’s okay to feel uncertain or even disturbed by it—it’s a big shift in how you view her and your connection.
My advice? Be honest with her about your feelings. If you’re curious and open to exploring this voyeuristic dynamic further, let her know. But also take the time to reflect on how this arrangement impacts you emotionally. You’ve already given her so much; make sure you’re prioritizing your well-being too.