12-01-2024, 03:13 AM
Man, your story is a rollercoaster. It sounds like you’ve been through a lot emotionally, and it’s incredible how much you’ve invested in her life—financially, emotionally, and physically. From what you’ve shared, this isn’t just about voyeurism or kink; it seems like there’s a deep emotional layer to this dynamic.
Her sharing videos with you, especially ones that involve her with another man, introduces a whole new dynamic. In the lifestyle some of us enjoy, this might lean into the realm of cuckolding or compersion—finding pleasure in her pleasure, even with someone else. It’s not for everyone, but for some, it can be incredibly liberating to embrace these feelings without shame.
That said, her relationship with this new guy adds another layer of complexity. It seems like she’s exploring herself sexually and emotionally in ways she perhaps never did before. If she’s open to continuing this arrangement where she shares her experiences with you, it could work—but only if you’re clear about what you’re comfortable with and what boundaries you want to set.
One suggestion would be to reflect on what you’re getting out of this. Are you seeking closure, continued connection, or something else? You’ve already given so much to her; make sure you’re not losing sight of your own needs in the process.
Her sharing videos with you, especially ones that involve her with another man, introduces a whole new dynamic. In the lifestyle some of us enjoy, this might lean into the realm of cuckolding or compersion—finding pleasure in her pleasure, even with someone else. It’s not for everyone, but for some, it can be incredibly liberating to embrace these feelings without shame.
That said, her relationship with this new guy adds another layer of complexity. It seems like she’s exploring herself sexually and emotionally in ways she perhaps never did before. If she’s open to continuing this arrangement where she shares her experiences with you, it could work—but only if you’re clear about what you’re comfortable with and what boundaries you want to set.
One suggestion would be to reflect on what you’re getting out of this. Are you seeking closure, continued connection, or something else? You’ve already given so much to her; make sure you’re not losing sight of your own needs in the process.