Do you have explicit chat with your partner during sex?

[hanar123]

I’m in a long-term relationship, and we’ve recently started experimenting with explicit communication during sex. At first, it felt a bit awkward—like, what do you even say? But once we got over the initial weirdness, it became one of the best things we’ve done for our intimacy.

What’s funny is that we don’t just talk about sex during sex. Sometimes we’ll start joking or even bring up random topics while still being physically connected. It might sound odd, but it actually makes the experience more relaxed and fun. We’ve had some of our deepest conversations this way, and it’s brought us closer emotionally as well as physically.

One thing that’s been really transformative is using this time to express gratitude. For example, saying things like, “I love how you touch me,” or, “You make me feel amazing,” creates a positive feedback loop. It’s not just about pleasure; it’s about making your partner feel appreciated and loved.

I think the key to making this work is being authentic. Don’t try to force it or say things that don’t feel natural. If you’re genuine, your partner will pick up on that and respond in kind. It’s all about building trust and intimacy together.