Do you have explicit chat with your partner during sex?

[antonio123]

This is such an interesting topic! My partner and I are huge fans of talking during sex—it’s a big part of our connection. It’s not always “explicit” in the sense of being dirty talk, though we do that too sometimes. A lot of the time, it’s just affirmations like, “You feel amazing,” or checking in with each other, like, “Is this good?” or “Do you want more of that?”

What I’ve noticed is that talking helps us stay present with each other. It’s easy to get caught up in your own head, especially if you’re worried about how you look or if you’re doing everything “right.” Talking brings us back into the moment and reminds us that we’re in this together.

One of my favorite things is when my partner tells me exactly what they’re feeling in real-time. It’s such a turn-on to know they’re enjoying themselves and to hear it in their voice. Plus, it builds confidence on both sides—you know you’re doing something right, and they feel comfortable enough to express it.

For anyone who hasn’t tried this yet, I’d say start with something simple. Even just saying, “You’re so sexy,” can open the door to more communication. Once you realize how much it enhances the experience, you’ll wonder why you didn’t start sooner!