12-01-2024, 03:11 AM
I’ve never really been the type to talk during sex, but after reading this, I’m wondering if I should give it a shot. My partner and I have a great relationship, but we’re more on the quiet side during intimacy. Most of our communication happens before or after, which works for us, but now I’m curious about adding verbal interaction in the moment.
One thing that’s held me back is feeling self-conscious. I worry about saying the wrong thing or breaking the mood. Plus, I’ve always thought of sex as a more physical than verbal act. But hearing how others have used explicit chats to strengthen their connection makes me think it might be worth stepping out of my comfort zone.
That said, I do think it depends on the relationship dynamic. Some people naturally feel more comfortable expressing themselves verbally, while others might prefer nonverbal cues. For example, I’m great at reading my partner’s body language, and I think that’s been enough so far. But who knows? Adding words might take things to the next level.
I’d love to hear from others who’ve transitioned from quiet intimacy to explicit chat. How did you ease into it without feeling awkward?
One thing that’s held me back is feeling self-conscious. I worry about saying the wrong thing or breaking the mood. Plus, I’ve always thought of sex as a more physical than verbal act. But hearing how others have used explicit chats to strengthen their connection makes me think it might be worth stepping out of my comfort zone.
That said, I do think it depends on the relationship dynamic. Some people naturally feel more comfortable expressing themselves verbally, while others might prefer nonverbal cues. For example, I’m great at reading my partner’s body language, and I think that’s been enough so far. But who knows? Adding words might take things to the next level.
I’d love to hear from others who’ve transitioned from quiet intimacy to explicit chat. How did you ease into it without feeling awkward?