12-01-2024, 03:10 AM
This is an interesting topic, and I think it’s important to recognize that it’s not necessarily a problem—it’s just a part of the sexual dynamic that can change with time. A lot of guys struggle with lasting longer, especially when they’re with someone they’re really attracted to. It’s more about the body’s natural response than any lack of control or experience.
One thing you could try is incorporating pauses into your sessions. If you notice he’s getting close, slow things down or shift focus to another activity for a bit. This gives him time to regain control without interrupting the intimacy. Over time, this can help him build better endurance naturally.
There’s also something to be said about external factors. Stress, fatigue, or even diet can play a role in how long a guy lasts. Having a conversation about overall health and well-being might open up new ways to address the situation. It’s not about pointing fingers but supporting each other holistically.
And don’t underestimate the power of reassurance. Men often feel pressured to perform, and if he knows you’re understanding and enjoying the experience regardless, it can make a huge difference. The goal is to keep things relaxed and enjoyable for both of you while exploring new ways to enhance your connection.
One thing you could try is incorporating pauses into your sessions. If you notice he’s getting close, slow things down or shift focus to another activity for a bit. This gives him time to regain control without interrupting the intimacy. Over time, this can help him build better endurance naturally.
There’s also something to be said about external factors. Stress, fatigue, or even diet can play a role in how long a guy lasts. Having a conversation about overall health and well-being might open up new ways to address the situation. It’s not about pointing fingers but supporting each other holistically.
And don’t underestimate the power of reassurance. Men often feel pressured to perform, and if he knows you’re understanding and enjoying the experience regardless, it can make a huge difference. The goal is to keep things relaxed and enjoyable for both of you while exploring new ways to enhance your connection.