12-01-2024, 03:09 AM
I’ve been in a similar situation, and I can tell you from personal experience, it’s not about the guy being inexperienced or uninterested. Usually, it’s the opposite—he’s really into you, which amps up his sensitivity and makes it harder for him to last. For many men, it’s a mental thing as much as a physical one.
One thing that worked well for me and my partner was focusing on the buildup. Spending more time on foreplay and exploring each other’s bodies before jumping straight into intercourse can help balance things out. It not only takes the edge off for him but also builds intimacy for both of you.
Another trick is switching up the rhythm and positions. Slower movements or certain positions can reduce the intensity for him, which helps with control. Taking breaks during sex to focus on other forms of pleasure can also extend the experience. The key is to make it feel natural and fun, not like you’re trying to “fix” anything.
As for how he feels about you, I wouldn’t worry too much. If anything, he’s probably thrilled to be with someone who excites him that much. The fact that you’re willing to work with him on this will only strengthen your connection and make the experience more rewarding for both of you.
One thing that worked well for me and my partner was focusing on the buildup. Spending more time on foreplay and exploring each other’s bodies before jumping straight into intercourse can help balance things out. It not only takes the edge off for him but also builds intimacy for both of you.
Another trick is switching up the rhythm and positions. Slower movements or certain positions can reduce the intensity for him, which helps with control. Taking breaks during sex to focus on other forms of pleasure can also extend the experience. The key is to make it feel natural and fun, not like you’re trying to “fix” anything.
As for how he feels about you, I wouldn’t worry too much. If anything, he’s probably thrilled to be with someone who excites him that much. The fact that you’re willing to work with him on this will only strengthen your connection and make the experience more rewarding for both of you.