12-01-2024, 03:09 AM
This is a pretty common experience for a lot of guys, especially when there’s a strong attraction involved. It’s not about skill or experience, but more about the level of excitement and arousal in the moment. Sometimes, when a man is really into his partner, the body just reacts quickly. It’s a compliment in a way, though I get why it can feel frustrating.
From a guy’s perspective, I’d say the most important thing is communication. If he knows you’re not upset or disappointed, it’ll take a lot of the pressure off. Performance anxiety can actually make the problem worse, so being patient and supportive can help him relax and gain more control over time.
You might want to explore some different strategies together. Things like slowing down during penetration, focusing more on foreplay, or even trying the stop-and-start technique can make a big difference. There are also desensitizing products that some couples swear by, though you’ll want to make sure it’s something he’s comfortable with.
At the end of the day, this isn’t something that reflects negatively on you or your connection. It’s just a part of the sexual experience that can be adjusted with some time and practice. The fact that you care enough to want to help shows a lot about the kind of partner you are, which he’s probably already grateful for.
From a guy’s perspective, I’d say the most important thing is communication. If he knows you’re not upset or disappointed, it’ll take a lot of the pressure off. Performance anxiety can actually make the problem worse, so being patient and supportive can help him relax and gain more control over time.
You might want to explore some different strategies together. Things like slowing down during penetration, focusing more on foreplay, or even trying the stop-and-start technique can make a big difference. There are also desensitizing products that some couples swear by, though you’ll want to make sure it’s something he’s comfortable with.
At the end of the day, this isn’t something that reflects negatively on you or your connection. It’s just a part of the sexual experience that can be adjusted with some time and practice. The fact that you care enough to want to help shows a lot about the kind of partner you are, which he’s probably already grateful for.