12-01-2024, 03:06 AM
Man, I totally get where you’re coming from. I hit a similar wall a couple of years ago. I was living alone, working remotely, and honestly just going through the motions. My love life was nonexistent, and my solo sessions weren’t cutting it anymore. It wasn’t until I started traveling that my perspective really shifted.
In some countries, the attitudes towards sex and intimacy are completely different from what we’re used to in the West. I started meeting women who were incredibly open about their desires, and it made me realize how limited my own view of sexuality had been. I’d always thought of sex as just a physical act, but it’s so much more when you bring in emotional and even spiritual elements.
That’s when I started experimenting with Tantra practices during my solo time. It’s not about rushing to the finish line—it’s about drawing out the experience and really tuning into your sensations. Breathing techniques, edging, even focusing on the energy flow in your body—it sounds woo-woo, but trust me, it works.
Now, when I’m with someone, the connection feels deeper. I don’t feel like I’m just scratching an itch anymore. It’s like my solo explorations taught me how to be fully present in the moment, whether I’m alone or with a partner. Have any of you tried this kind of approach?
In some countries, the attitudes towards sex and intimacy are completely different from what we’re used to in the West. I started meeting women who were incredibly open about their desires, and it made me realize how limited my own view of sexuality had been. I’d always thought of sex as just a physical act, but it’s so much more when you bring in emotional and even spiritual elements.
That’s when I started experimenting with Tantra practices during my solo time. It’s not about rushing to the finish line—it’s about drawing out the experience and really tuning into your sensations. Breathing techniques, edging, even focusing on the energy flow in your body—it sounds woo-woo, but trust me, it works.
Now, when I’m with someone, the connection feels deeper. I don’t feel like I’m just scratching an itch anymore. It’s like my solo explorations taught me how to be fully present in the moment, whether I’m alone or with a partner. Have any of you tried this kind of approach?