12-01-2024, 03:06 AM
I’ve seen this issue come up in a few relationships, and it’s definitely not as uncommon as it seems. The fact that your wife feels bad about the situation shows she cares, but it also means she might be internalizing some guilt that could make things harder for both of you.
One thing that helped my partner and me was exploring extended foreplay. By the time she climaxed, we had already spent so much time connecting that her loss of interest didn’t feel like a dead stop. This also gave me more time to focus on my own needs before her sensitivity kicked in.
We also tried taking breaks after her orgasm instead of continuing right away. Sometimes, giving her a little time to recover made it easier for us to pick things back up later. If this doesn’t work for you, there’s no harm in exploring alternatives, like focusing on oral or manual stimulation for yourself after she’s done.
At the end of the day, what worked best for us was treating this as a shared challenge rather than a personal failing. When you approach it as a team, the issue feels less like a roadblock and more like an opportunity to grow closer. Keep the lines of communication open, and don’t be afraid to ask for her input on what might make things better for both of you
One thing that helped my partner and me was exploring extended foreplay. By the time she climaxed, we had already spent so much time connecting that her loss of interest didn’t feel like a dead stop. This also gave me more time to focus on my own needs before her sensitivity kicked in.
We also tried taking breaks after her orgasm instead of continuing right away. Sometimes, giving her a little time to recover made it easier for us to pick things back up later. If this doesn’t work for you, there’s no harm in exploring alternatives, like focusing on oral or manual stimulation for yourself after she’s done.
At the end of the day, what worked best for us was treating this as a shared challenge rather than a personal failing. When you approach it as a team, the issue feels less like a roadblock and more like an opportunity to grow closer. Keep the lines of communication open, and don’t be afraid to ask for her input on what might make things better for both of you