12-01-2024, 02:23 AM
First off, I love that you’re being so thoughtful about this! It sounds like you’ve had some challenges in the past, but now that you’re in a better headspace and have a partner who is supportive, you’re in a great position to explore your sexuality in new ways.
I think you should ask him if it feels right for you. It’s normal to have concerns about putting pressure on him, but if he’s understanding and patient, he’ll likely be open to helping you. I would suggest having an honest conversation with him about what you’re feeling—let him know that you’re not expecting anything specific, but that you’d like to explore orgasm together. It can feel less like pressure if you present it as something you’re both curious to try.
One thing to keep in mind is that orgasm isn’t always the end goal. It’s okay to focus on the journey rather than the destination. Enjoying each other’s company and getting closer will naturally help you both understand what works. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself or the situation, just let things happen naturally.
In the end, it’s all about mutual respect, trust, and open communication. If you approach it from that angle, he’ll probably be more than happy to help you discover what feels good for you. Good luck!
I think you should ask him if it feels right for you. It’s normal to have concerns about putting pressure on him, but if he’s understanding and patient, he’ll likely be open to helping you. I would suggest having an honest conversation with him about what you’re feeling—let him know that you’re not expecting anything specific, but that you’d like to explore orgasm together. It can feel less like pressure if you present it as something you’re both curious to try.
One thing to keep in mind is that orgasm isn’t always the end goal. It’s okay to focus on the journey rather than the destination. Enjoying each other’s company and getting closer will naturally help you both understand what works. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself or the situation, just let things happen naturally.
In the end, it’s all about mutual respect, trust, and open communication. If you approach it from that angle, he’ll probably be more than happy to help you discover what feels good for you. Good luck!