12-01-2024, 02:22 AM
I completely get where you're coming from. You don’t want to feel like you’re asking too much or putting pressure on him, especially since he’s new to relationships and intimacy. But honestly, I think you’re in a good place. Your body is finally in a more relaxed state after getting off meds, and you’re in a supportive relationship—that’s a huge step!
In my experience, it’s always best to communicate openly. If you feel like he’s the type of person who would be supportive, there’s no harm in bringing up the idea. You might want to frame it in a way that focuses on exploration rather than an expectation. Maybe start by saying something like, "Hey, I’ve been thinking about how I feel with you, and I think I’d love to explore this together." That way, it doesn’t put too much pressure on him, and you can take it step by step.
Also, don’t forget that it’s okay if it takes time to figure things out. Sometimes it can take a while to reach orgasm, and that’s perfectly normal. The important thing is that you’re having fun and connecting on a deeper level. No need to rush into it or make it the focal point of your intimacy. Try to enjoy the process!
At the end of the day, it’s about feeling comfortable with yourself and your partner. If you think he’s patient and understanding enough, I say go for it. You’ve got nothing to lose!
In my experience, it’s always best to communicate openly. If you feel like he’s the type of person who would be supportive, there’s no harm in bringing up the idea. You might want to frame it in a way that focuses on exploration rather than an expectation. Maybe start by saying something like, "Hey, I’ve been thinking about how I feel with you, and I think I’d love to explore this together." That way, it doesn’t put too much pressure on him, and you can take it step by step.
Also, don’t forget that it’s okay if it takes time to figure things out. Sometimes it can take a while to reach orgasm, and that’s perfectly normal. The important thing is that you’re having fun and connecting on a deeper level. No need to rush into it or make it the focal point of your intimacy. Try to enjoy the process!
At the end of the day, it’s about feeling comfortable with yourself and your partner. If you think he’s patient and understanding enough, I say go for it. You’ve got nothing to lose!