12-01-2024, 02:20 AM
I’ve heard mixed responses on this topic from women I’ve been with, and honestly, I think it’s one of those “it depends” situations. One of my exes told me she could definitely feel it and described it as a warm, almost pulsing sensation. She said it added to the intimacy because it made her feel closer to me in that moment. On the other hand, another partner told me she wasn’t really aware of it and was more focused on the overall pleasure of the experience.
What I’ve noticed is that sensitivity varies from person to person, just like with anything else in sex. Some people are super in tune with their bodies, while others might not pick up on those subtle sensations. And honestly, both are perfectly fine. It doesn’t mean the experience is any less meaningful or enjoyable.
I also think that how connected you are emotionally makes a big difference. When you’re with someone you really care about, the whole experience tends to feel more intense and memorable. That emotional bond can heighten physical sensations and make even the smallest details stand out.
If your partner says she feels it, trust her. And if she doesn’t mention it, don’t take it personally. The most important thing is that you’re both enjoying yourselves and building that connection. In the end, sex is about more than just physical sensations—it’s about sharing an experience that brings you closer together.
What I’ve noticed is that sensitivity varies from person to person, just like with anything else in sex. Some people are super in tune with their bodies, while others might not pick up on those subtle sensations. And honestly, both are perfectly fine. It doesn’t mean the experience is any less meaningful or enjoyable.
I also think that how connected you are emotionally makes a big difference. When you’re with someone you really care about, the whole experience tends to feel more intense and memorable. That emotional bond can heighten physical sensations and make even the smallest details stand out.
If your partner says she feels it, trust her. And if she doesn’t mention it, don’t take it personally. The most important thing is that you’re both enjoying yourselves and building that connection. In the end, sex is about more than just physical sensations—it’s about sharing an experience that brings you closer together.