12-01-2024, 02:17 AM
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It’s also worth considering that the mind plays a massive role in sexual pleasure. The fact that you’re only able to orgasm when fantasizing about strap-ons might suggest that your mind is more focused on the imagery and the dynamics that come with it than on real-life experiences. That’s not unusual, and it’s not a sign of anything being “wrong” with you. It could just be the way your brain works with sexual stimulation.
I think the key here is to experiment and see what works for you. If you’re feeling frustrated by your current situation, try changing things up a bit. Explore different types of stimulation, including fantasies and real-life situations, and see how your body reacts. You might discover new ways to bring yourself to orgasm without relying on the same fantasy.
As for oral sex on women, again, there’s no need to feel bad or conflicted. Sexual preference isn’t universal, and there’s no reason you should be attracted to everything that others might expect. If that’s not your thing, that’s completely okay. It’s all about finding what turns you on and makes you feel comfortable. Don’t be afraid to explore, and most importantly, be kind to yourself in the process.
It’s also worth considering that the mind plays a massive role in sexual pleasure. The fact that you’re only able to orgasm when fantasizing about strap-ons might suggest that your mind is more focused on the imagery and the dynamics that come with it than on real-life experiences. That’s not unusual, and it’s not a sign of anything being “wrong” with you. It could just be the way your brain works with sexual stimulation.
I think the key here is to experiment and see what works for you. If you’re feeling frustrated by your current situation, try changing things up a bit. Explore different types of stimulation, including fantasies and real-life situations, and see how your body reacts. You might discover new ways to bring yourself to orgasm without relying on the same fantasy.
As for oral sex on women, again, there’s no need to feel bad or conflicted. Sexual preference isn’t universal, and there’s no reason you should be attracted to everything that others might expect. If that’s not your thing, that’s completely okay. It’s all about finding what turns you on and makes you feel comfortable. Don’t be afraid to explore, and most importantly, be kind to yourself in the process.