12-01-2024, 02:12 AM
I completely understand the dilemma you're facing. Sex is supposed to be an enjoyable and intimate experience, but when it’s mixed with questions about orgasming, it can make things feel complicated. Honestly, if I were in your shoes, I would tell him. It doesn’t sound like he’s pressuring you in a negative way – he seems genuinely interested in making sure you’re satisfied. And the truth is, not being able to orgasm with a partner doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong; it just means your body responds in a different way with someone else.
Your partner may feel like he's not doing something right, especially since he keeps asking if you've finished. That kind of concern might affect his confidence, and he could be stressing out more than you realize. Sharing this with him would help him understand that it’s not about his performance or that he’s not doing enough – it’s just how your body works.
It’s also good for both of you to be on the same page, so there’s no confusion or pressure on either side. You don’t need to make a huge deal about it, but just letting him know could make your experiences together even more enjoyable in the long run.
If I were in his position, I would definitely want to know. There’s no benefit in keeping it a secret, especially when a little honest conversation could make everything more comfortable for both of you.
Your partner may feel like he's not doing something right, especially since he keeps asking if you've finished. That kind of concern might affect his confidence, and he could be stressing out more than you realize. Sharing this with him would help him understand that it’s not about his performance or that he’s not doing enough – it’s just how your body works.
It’s also good for both of you to be on the same page, so there’s no confusion or pressure on either side. You don’t need to make a huge deal about it, but just letting him know could make your experiences together even more enjoyable in the long run.
If I were in his position, I would definitely want to know. There’s no benefit in keeping it a secret, especially when a little honest conversation could make everything more comfortable for both of you.